It is the human encounter that makes the act unbearable, or makes places a great strain on one’s conscience or one’s sense of decency. If you’re sufficiently detached from it, it becomes a statistic. It becomes a military act.. My intent for promoting a stronger community was to help bring us closer together while EF was making changes here there. Fred 6/19 change in rules did just the opposite of bring us together, unfortunately. In fact, for some reason vibrators, much of the community turned on itself.