You open it by tearing off the tip. You can’t close the package after this, but it’s probably only enough lube for one or two uses. This would actually be a great size for traveling, or to keep in a toy bag for play parties.. If they were responsible parents they should have gotten him anger management and alcohol addiction help the first time it happened. If he didn’t make progress he should have been removed from UVA. It is here where UVA also dropped the ball.