My suggestion to you and hubby is, get a cheap one. Something to “start with” just to try it. If you don like it, then you can always junk it and you not out a bunch of money. It’s nothing special and looks all too familiar, but then again, look at the price. The lace of the pantie’s crotch portion and the cups of the bra is different. It has swirls and different scalloping.